Alan Cumming, stage, movie, and television actor has written a revealing memoir about his often-time abusive childhood and how it has affected his adult life.
Born in Scotland, Alan lived with his mother, brother and brutal father. During their childhood both boys were physically and verbally abused, but it seems most of his father’s wrath was taken out on Alan. Their loving mother was verbally abused and treated with disrespect.
The book toggles from his childhood in Scotland in the 1960s to 2010 while he appears in the British television series Who Do You Think You Are. The show is delving into Alan’s ancestry, learning about his maternal grandfather, whom his mother never knew. Alan learns his grandfather was a World War II hero who later died a violent death.
Along the way, Alan learns that the man whom he believes to be his father, may not be. This uncertainty brings anxiety, but as a professional actor, he performs in the series as he is expected to do.
I found Not MyFather’s Son an honest accounting of the effects of an abusive childhood. Cumming’s truthful approach to sharing it is filled with wisdom and observations that show insights and deep compassion. I also enjoyed glimpses of Scotland of yesterday and today.
This is a compelling memoir, often depressing, but painfully honest. It is a story driven to find the truth about his grandfather, his father, and himself.
This sounds very interesting. I must have missed reading your blog on this month. You do review interesting books. Thanks!
Thank you, Eunice. Many of my reviews are of books selected by our library-sponsored book club. I love the group because I read books I otherwise might not have selected.
As a therapist I can attest to the scars such a childhood can produce. Healing can be a lifetime process. I am currently reading Alan’s book
I was surprised at his extensive acting background. I had only known him through Good Wife.
I find Alan Cumming quite a versatile actor. Seems he can get into any type of character, and I love when he introduces the PBS Masterpiece shows. His memoir sounds like his best masterpiece…
Alice, I hadn’t known of Alan Cumming until we started watching Good Wife. His memoir is well written.
A great review! I also read this some time ago, but your words brought back his story in a vivid and compelling manner.
I’d only known Alan Cumming from the TV show, Good Wife. I was surprised to learn of his many other accomplishments. And his childhood. Geesh!